Orgasms

Female Orgasm

Before You Get Started

Some women find it hard to cum or have an orgasm during sexual intercourse, this is usually because they grew up in a society that shuns masturbation and sexual acts as sinful, wrong and dirty. We are sorry if you are one of these women who has spent a large part of your life being lied too, but lets correct some misinformation you have been subjected too.

You need to understand that sex, and sexual acts (like masturbation) are 100% natural and should be enjoyed, this is the most basic part of perpetuating any species. In short, if sex wasn't fun, and didn't feel good, the human race (and many others) would have come to a grinding halt the second we moved past A sexual reproduction (the act of reproducing with ones self).

Because of this misconception many people, (especially women) have failed to take time to learn their bodies. This greatly reduces the chance of being able to enjoy sex until you spend time learning your body. For many this "social brainwashing" makes it hard for people to enjoy themselves sexually. However, this is not because there is no pleasure to be felt, just that they have been indirectly taught to not enjoy it. Getting beyond this will take time and patience, so never rush your partner.

Last, an orgasm cannot be forced so don't try to make her cum or squirt, if she cant relax she wont be able to cum. Just go slow so she can let her learn her body. Remember that sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, so don't take it too serious!

Clitoral and Vaginal Orgasms

A clitoral orgasm is what most women are familiar with as they experience it when they masturbate and a G-spot orgasms (AKA vaginal orgasms) is something almost all women need someone else's help with experiencing. The need to fully trust your partner, and understand you are not going to pee but cum is the main stumbling block most women run into as they explore this part of their sexuality. The best way to know if your as a women where about to squirt is feeling like you "need to pee" only to have the need vanish right after you stop having sex.

Once you as the women are comfortable with this aspect of your sexuality you will finally be able to let go and enjoy vaginal orgasm from g-spot stimulation. Many women find this sort of sex very addictive and a deeply personal experience they wish to share with a man they trust, and is both emotionally satisfying and erotic. Men need to pay attention to her clitoris to help her along but this is not necessary if she has had vaginal orgasms in the past. You may want to try some of the positions listed in Heterosexual Sex Positions and find one that works best for hitting her g-spot with each stroke.

Some Ideas on Getting Her There:

First of, we would like to remind her to relax and enjoy herself, as that is the most important part.

Grinding

Women know what they like, and what do they do when they are on top? The Grind, this give her the best clitoral and vaginal stimulation and is simple to do. To help her simply rotate your hips so you can push against the front of her groin with the area just above the penis. Rocking back and forth or side to side is a really good way of getting started.

Pillow power and thumbs up

With her mounting you from the top, lay on your back with a pillow under your butt. This will arch your hips upwards to give her deeper penetration (make your feel longer) and improve the quality of “the Grind”. The man can also use his hands to stimulate her further, place your hand over her pubic region, and rest your thumb on her clitoris so you can play with her more as she rides you.

T Position

With the woman lying on her back, the man should lie perpendicularly (i.e., at a right angle to her, thus forming the ‘T’), while straddling the woman’s far leg. Depending on the woman’s flexibility, this can be a great position for deep penetration, while exposing the clitoris for manual stimulation. This double stimulation is very gratifying and can often lead to the big “O” really quickly.

Using Sex Toys

Sex toys are both a man and women's best friend in any sexual encounter, so don't be afraid to break out toys to add to the fun, below are a few ideas you may want to try!

Clitoral Viberators: These come in sucking and tap on form and you may find some varieties a little bulky for some positions, but these are usually a big win in the bed room.

Vibrators:Just because your dick is down does not mean you are out! A normal vibrator can be used in a lot of ways, and that they come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and purposes.

Vibrating Cock Rings: Turn your penis into a vibrating sex toy! A cock ring is basically a ring with one or more vibrating eggs attached. Simply slide it down the shaft of the penis, turn on the vibrating eggs, and voila, super pleasure for both parties.