Oral Sex

Fellatio - Basics

Fellatio or Oral sex is a easy way to give pleasure, regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. But remember that when you have oral sex, you are doing it for him. So try and focus on his penis, the shape, taste, smell and figure out what you do and dont like so you can have fun pleasuring him. Many men like it when their women "likes to suck and swallow" and if you act enthusiastic or like you enjoy it, odds are very good he will finish faster meaning its your turn to receive.

But if you are against giving head or "fellatio", just explain why you don’t, and don’t allow him to force you if you are uncomfortable.

Guys, a shower before hand does wonders for her, and remember to wash your anus, the smell does travel. Remember a bad smell or taste will encorage her to pass on oral, so if your want it, clean your self up.

Girls if he does stink you should suggest he take a shower with you, because "you’ve had a busy day and don’t feel clean". Guys tend to buy this hook line and sinker.

The Basics

While women need mental stimulation, men are very audio visual, so kiss and lick him in the places you like, but smile, have fun, make noise and find positions where he can see what turns him on the most (seeing your clevage, anus, pussy, legs, arms, hair etc). Some licking, sucking, and kissing on and around his penis and testicles will often get him rock hard allowing you to move on to oral play.

One common mistake woman make is to repeatedly suck on his penis in the same way until he (A) cums or (B) they get a sore jaw and neck.

So again, mix it up, licking, kissing, sucking, hands, breasts... you girls have a few weapons in your arsenal that can be used to great effect during a blow job. What you mix in as you change things should always be built around what you partner likes. Although there is a lot to say about fellatio that can get the job done in a matter of minutes, it is the longer ones that usually result in larger orgasms. If you don't want a mouthful remember to keep an eye on his scrotum (his testicle “sack”). As he gets close to climax the skin on his scrotum tightens, pulling his testicles up towards his penis.

Lube, Toys, and Oral Sex

Flavored lubricants, or lubricants that heat up when blown on or rubbed lubes can also add some spice to your oral sex life.

Sex Toys like a vibrating cock ring, or an oral simulator, can intensify the experience.

If your man likes to experiment, we recommend stimulating his prostate gland with your finger or an anal toy to take his orgasms to a whole new world of pleasure.

Ejaculation

Most men like it when their partner swallows their semen, making a permanent deposit in a women is more or less hard coded into men at the genetic level, but if you don't like it your options include: spitting it out, or just letting it shoot and clean up the mess afterwards.

If he comes, don't stop, instead continue to gently stimulate him orally or with your hand for a minute or two. You will find his penis is much more sensitive right after an orgasm and you can actually control a man with good sex.

Warnings and Suggestions

Some men like the feeling of teeth on their penis while others don't, your going to have to figure out what your man likes. If he does not like your pearly whites then try tucking your lips around your teeth before you take his penis in your mouth.

For safe oral sex we strongly recommend the use of condoms. If you want something a little more fun try using a flavored condom and stay away from any lubricated condoms as they will taste horrible. You can also buy a flavored lubricant to turn use on a normal latex condom.