Restraints are used in bondage and can be a wonderful way for people to explore their sexuality with a lover that they trust completely. The feeling of playfulness and the teasing, others like to take it to include a combination of pleasure and pain (but that's on you). The submissive submits leaving them selves vulnerability (remember to trust your partner!), and the 'dom' enjoys a sensation of being in total control over the 'sub'.
Some sensual items you can tie them up with include scarves, ankle cuffs (furry cuffs are more sub friendly), Velcro straps and masks with ball gags - as well as full body harness systems that can deepen penetration, and don't forget you can pin them down with your own body weight.
But if your going to tie someone up remember that trust between the two of your is the most important thing. Always have a "safety word/safety signal" Or a word or gesture the sub can say/use when he/she's had enough. Remember to make an agreement with your partner about how far you want to go before you start
When you first start experimenting, use things like blindfolding or restraining your bodies with different items that are easy to break out of. Once the two of you get comfortable with this type of sexual play you can focus more on your fantasies.
If your really into this, try being tied to a item like your bed posts or bed frame and then try getting creative with ropes, masks or gags. You can even try a Full Body Tie Job, a Hogtie, or tie them to a chair.
In the end using restraints involves trust, communication, creativity, role playing and some props. Just make sure you don't go beyond your partner's boundaries, and as long as they you two trust each other and communicate good, its time to say "furry hand cuffs, whipped cream, my place, ten minutes".
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