Massage

A Basic Erotic Massage

When you give a massage it must be a relaxing, persona experience, you hands must be warm, massage oils are a MUST, and you should not put yourselves in any position where you may be interrupted.

A good massage will be slow, take a good thirty minutes at minimum, and will cater to the needs to the recipient. Depending on your skill, the person you are giving a massage to or your victim will have different needs every time so communication is important!

You will also want a twin sized bed or thinner so you can get to all sides of the person you are rubbing down, then you can light up some candles I would recommend massage candles as the melted oil is scented and great to use as a heated massage oil, make sure the room temperature is almost hot enough to make you sweet when clothed so that the person receiving the massage is warm (adjust the temp further to their needs and wants).You and your partner should probably bath before the massage as well, and this is another place you can have fun.

Where to Start

Remember, the reason you give a massage is to relax your partner, and a sexual massage will have you teasing your partners erogenous zones as well as give a normal massage. It is not always easy to give a great massage, but everyone likes to be touched (its why we pet our pets), so pet your lover, focus on them and you will never give a bad massage.
As time goes on you will find out what they do and do not like, try and maintain constant contact as you explore their body, and don't be afraid to kiss, nibble or lick your way around (a bit and kiss on your lovers butt is often both surprising, fun, and well received if done every now and then)

Don't be afraid to ask question and listen to your partners breathing as its a great indication of how you are doing! Last keep your motions as rhythmic and symmetric when starting out, as your partner learns what's going on they will relax even more.

Starting Points

The back is always a good place to start, then the shoulders,, neck, arms, and work your way from the feet, up the legs to the upper thighs with you hands on the inside and outside of the thigh. If you have long finger nails you can also do wonders on their scalp as these two centers the head and genitals are two more "personal" areas that when touched and explored can help get your partner into the mood, but as you two become more comfortable you will find they may ask for more direct action. Once you are able to pet between your partners legs, kissing and fingering can be worked in as your partner is ok with it (or does not object) so work with confidence, and if you don't have it, fake it till you make it.

From here you can flip your partner over their body in much the same way as with their back, remember the nipples of men and women are very sensitive and kissing, nibbling, and licking the underside of the breast and nipples can be very arousing. Men naturally are easier to give a chest massage to then a women, but you can use two hands and encompass one of her breasts and squeeze from the base to the tip, the larger her breasts are, the more pressure you may need to apply, but do what is comfortable for her. Suckling will also allow you to free up one hand to play with your lovers sensitive spots as you move from massage, to sexual massage and foreplay.

How to use your hands

When giving a massage use should your finger tips softly on your partners soft and sensitive spots applying more pleasure if needed for deep tissue massage.

When working on large muscles the thumb and open palm will often work best, but until you know your partner better, start softly and use more pressure and force as you find she wants or needs.

As you give more massages you will better understand what a body needs and can fine tune further from there as your lover requires. As you surprise your partner with fun bites, scratches, licks, and such you will be remembered fondly as one of their best or better lovers!